Purposeful Thinking

By |Published On: July 8, 2020|Categories: 4-Minute Radio Program|
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Sometimes listening to yourself can get you into a lot of trouble!

Hi, I’m Joni Eareckson Tada, and thanks so much for taking time out of your busy schedule to join me today – especially with that intriguing statement I just made. Because I know, as a spinal cord injured quadriplegic, I understand depression – and if you’re depressed you keep listening to your own thoughts, don’t you? You will most likely hear thoughts that are dark, and hopeless, pessimistic, critical of yourself and others. And whenever those thoughts get started, they rarely stop until they get to the most despairing place possible.

For example, I remember when I was first injured and struggling with depression, I could not take a compliment. If someone said to me, “Wow, Joni, your hair looks really great,” I’d automatically assume that my hair normally looked pretty bad, or that the person was just patronizing me, or that it can’t be that disabled people can have great looking hair; after all, I’m disabled and that means I’m supposed to look unkempt and scruffy. See what I mean? When you’re depressed you always think the worst of yourself and of other people. And if you’re honest, you think the worst of God, too.

When it comes to depression, this whole thought process is – well, it’s kind of automatic. You crank it up and off it goes spiraling downward into deeper despair. And the hard thing about depression is you often just don’t have the mental energy needed to correct those pessimistic thoughts. Somewhere along the line; oh, maybe four or five years after my diving accident, I knew I had to break this cycle. I knew I’d have to start by “thinking!” Not automatic thinking – I already knew those thoughts couldn’t be trusted; rather, I had to start purposeful thinking. My thinking had to be guided by Scripture.

For example, early on, at first when I would wheel into a crowded room, I’d immediately think people would see my wheelchair and feel sorry for me – and, of course, that would lead me to more depression. But after getting into God’s Word, I then would wheel into a crowded room and think purposefully – Philippians chapter 2 tells me to look out for the interests of others before my own. In other words, Joni, get your focus off yourself in this crowded room, and put it on the rest of the people in it. I mean, look for ways to encourage them; look around; engage them; be interested in them. Like I said, it wasn’t easy, and there were many times I failed. But I knew I was in a fight – a fight to control my thoughts and submit them to the lordship of Christ. To be honest, a lot of disabled people I knew didn’t want to put up that kind of fight. It was easier to be depressed; they preferred to wait for the world around them to change, rather than make an effort to change their thinking habits.

So, friend, if you are struggling with depression, have the courage to ask yourself, “Do I really want to change?” And if you do, if you are willing to shape your thoughts with Scripture and fight against those spiraling thoughts that pull you down, well, victory will be yours. Again, you know if you’re depressed that fight won’t be easy, but I have something I want to give you that’ll definitely help. It’s a little booklet by Dr. Edward Welch entitled “Depression: The Way Up When You’re Down,” and it’s one of the best guides I’ve ever read on defeating depression. I’d love to put it in your hands, so please visit my radio page today at joniandfriends.org and ask for your free copy. Fight the good fight when it comes to your thoughts. Through Jesus, the victory will be yours.

Friend, thanks so much for these special few minutes we’ve been able to share together, and because this program is called Joni and Friends please know that I would love to hear from you. So contact us at joniradio.org. That’s a different link to my radio page than you usually hear me say, but it’s a lot easier. Joniradio.org. And God bless you today and thanks for listening to Joni and Friends!

© Joni and Friends
Previously aired as “Good Thinking,” #7598 on 6/15/11.

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Depression: The Way Up When You Are Down

Emotional numbness. Fear and withdrawal. Fatigue. These are marks of what is commonly called depression. If you are one of the many people suffering from depression, there is hope and there is help. Dr. Edward T. Welch helps us understand the spiritual issues involved, and whether one’s depression is caused by physical problems or results in them. Getting to the heart of what depression says and means, Welch guides us through a process of dealing with depression biblically and effectively.

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